The 2 Hour Mocktail Party With Nick Gray
Are you figuring still out how to meet new people, strengthen your existing relationships, and be the person everyone wants to know? In today's episode, my friend Nick Gray shares his step-by-step guide on how to build big relationships with small gatherings and successfully host social events without drinking. He provides relevant tips on what hosts can do to ensure a successful party: how to plan it, execute it and enjoy it. So whether you're looking to make new friends or strengthen your existing relationships, this episode is for you!
Nick Gray is an entrepreneur and author living in Austin, Texas. He started and sold two successful companies: Flight Display Systems and Museum Hack. Nick is the author of The 2-Hour Cocktail Party, a step-by-step handbook that teaches you how to build big relationships by hosting small gatherings.
Key Highlights:
[00:01 - 06:57] Opening Segment
• How to throw an amazing mocktail party with no alcohol
• Building big relationships by hosting small gatherings
• The process of forming new relationships as you step into a new relationship with alcohol
[06:58 - 13:40] How to Host a Successful Social Event
• How hosting a party can help build relationships and skills in social situations
• Why you should not bring kids to the party
• How Nick keeps himself from dipping out of the context of the parties
[13:41 - 20:15] Hosting A 2-Hour Mocktail Party
• Loose connections and weak ties are important
• Hosting a party can be an effective way to build connections and learn more about people
• Why giving someone an invitation to a party is a gift that they will always want
[20:16 - 27:08] Practice and Build Confidence
• The Nick Gray's Party Formula
Name tags, cocktails, or non-alcoholic drinks only, and kick them out
• Use icebreakers to start conversations, and guest bios to show who is attending
[27:09 - 34:18] The Things That Need To Be In Place
• Why does the breakfast icebreaker always work well?
• How many people should be invited to the parties and why
• If you're hosting a party, make sure it ends on time
[34:19 - 41:09] Creating a Community of Like-Minded People
• How to create a community of like-minded people, and how to invite them to your parties
• The importance of having low-stakes parties at first
• How you can meet new people before inviting them to your parties
[41:10 - 47:45] Closing Segment
• Nick's tips to make social gatherings more enjoyable and productive
• Take action and host your own mocktail party soon
Want to connect with Nick? Follow him on Instagram.
Resources Mentioned:
The 2-Hour Cocktail Party: Website
The 2-Hour Cocktail Party: Amazon
How to Plan a Networking Event
My Parents Hosted a Party: Here's What They Learned
Mocktail Party: How to Host When You Don't Drink Alcohol
If I Had $10 Million Dollars, How Would I Live Differently?
Key Quotes:
"If you want people to like you, you have to do cool stuff." - Nick Gray
"The most successful people are those that can make hosting a habit." - Nick Gray
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